With a little preparation, the money you spend can turn into memories that are truly priceless. A smart budget can make the costs feel far more manageable—and even enjoyable. Let’s walk through the typical expenses so you know exactly what to plan for.
- Dress
Expect to pay anywhere from $100 to $300 for your bridesmaid dress. Some stores might allow you to pay it off monthly. If making payments is better for your budget it won’t hurt to ask a sales associate if this is an option during the appointment. Keep in mind that alterations often come at an additional cost, so be sure to inquire about that upfront so you’re fully prepared.
- Shoes
You’ll probably need a pair of shoes to match your dress, but that doesn’t mean you have to buy something new. If the dress is long, your shoes may not even be visible—so consider asking the bride if a pair of heels or sandals you already own would work. It could save you money and add comfort to your day.
- Accessories
If the bride has a specific vision for the big day, she may ask you to wear certain accessories—like matching jewelry, a clutch, or hairpieces. These extras can add up, so it’s a good idea to clarify expectations early and factor them into your overall budget.
- Hair and Makeup
The average cost for wedding hair and makeup is $300. Tips are normally not included in your quoted cost. If you feel confident in your hair and makeup abilities, the bride will most likely not have a problem with you doing it yourself, and you'll save some money. If you decide you want a natural glow for the event, a spray tan usually costs around $40.
- Nail Appointment
A manicure and pedicure can cost around $100 depending on which nail services you choose and the tip. This is often a welcomed service to look your best and have the wedding party look cohesive, but don't feel bad if you want to skip this in order to save money. You can save some money by opting to paint your nails at home!
- Bridal Shower
If the bridesmaids choose to host the bridal shower, you're looking at possible venue rental, catering, invitations, and decoration fees to split up. You are expected to bring a gift - most likely either money or something off the couple's wedding registry. Depending on how much you've spent on the shower itself, use this to gauge how much you can afford.
- Bachelorette Party
The amount you spend on bachelorette party festivities depends on your destination. Be sure to look into a housing rental that could comfortably fit all the wedding party. These rentals often have a kitchen and offer the ability to stay together versus a block of hotel rooms. Most bachelorette parties include giving a small gift as well.
- Wedding Gift
Most bridesmaids give the bride a thoughtful wedding gift. With that in mind, it's also important to take your other expenses into consideration. The couple understands that you've spent a lot of money on everything else, so don't feel like you have to go overboard on the wedding gift.
- Travel
If you don’t live in the same city as the bride, you may have to pay for travel on multiple weekends. You’ll definitely need to travel for the wedding and the bachelorette party. If she has a bridal shower in her hometown, you’ll need to travel for that as well. Additionally, the bride may ask you to join her for dress shopping or to try on bridesmaid dresses in person. Travel costs including airfare, hotel, transportation, and meals, can range from a few hundred to several thousand dollars.
Accepting a bridesmaid proposal brings along some considerable costs, but it is so worth it! All it takes is some careful consideration and budgeting. In the end, there's nothing quite like standing with the bride on the biggest day of her life!
